boundaries !
₊♡ don't sexualise me, don't refer to me as dude/bro/man or use masc terms on me, don't trauma dump, please don't dm/ping me if i don't know you, got a question about something? ask!, my pronouns fluctuate so please respect them!, don't ask me for personal info, please open a staff ticket in my servers before dming me unless it's about a senior - then that's fine, i have ocd - please ask me how you can structure your messages to not trigger it ♡₊

my ocd !
₊♡ i am neurodivergent and have severe diagnosed OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) which heavily affects my day to day life, how i structure my messages and how i articulate myself via tone. i do not understand tone :( ♡₊
₊♡ ocd can make social interactions difficult. such as: struggling recognizing how others feel, which can make me feel uncertain about how to respond to others, struggle expressing my feelings/finding the right words to express myself, difficulty in trying to figure out how others will respond to what i say or do, finding it hard to be flexible/reacting appropriately to change, impulse control, difficulty managing my level of aggression or extreme feelings of anxiety/upset ♡₊
here's how you can structure your messages to help me out:
₊♡ - use honest tone indicators, no matter how brutal. and if possible, use them at the beginning of large messages or state your desired tone at the beginning clearly. if i'm having a bad ocd day - tone indicators still may not help me and i may still question the tone in your message - i'm sorry in advance if i need to ask further questions.
- i prefer more detailed messages outlining very clearly your intentions, thoughts and feelings so there's no room for confusion or overthinking. ♡₊